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What’s a real thing from your childhood that kids these days would find completely foreign? Like, how we used to be able to walk right up to the gate to meet our family coming off a flight. Or how we had to pick a spot to meet at the theater BEFORE we went.

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Letting the receiver hang and spin to untwist the Very Long cord that allowed you to (just barely) go into your room and close the door. If you were very lucky you got a line in your room for your birthday in your early teens.

As I recently told my granddaughter (slightly edited) there would be one phone in the house at the end of a wire. Someone had to answer (usually Mom or Dad) so as a result everyone knew who was calling you. Only one person at a time could use it. 1/

Travel had to be carefully planned because neither of you could get in touch, unless you could find a payphone. If someone was on vacation and was needed to contact home in emergency, BBC radio would broadcast a message to tell that person to call home and hope someone who knew them heard it. 2/

Upside: Sitting in a restaurant, people would actually talk to each other. Conversations and study weren't constantly interrupted. On a drive we would look out the window at the scenery, or sing songs. And it was easier to *not* talk to someone if you didn't want to. End/

Real Irish 70s upbringing: there were 2-3 buses a day to get to the nearest town, so instead I'd walk 4 miles there and 4 miles back just to have something to do. If we had problems with our mains water supply, I'd walk to the nearest spring.

Being left home at age 5 w my 3 yo sister because neither parent had bothered going grocery shopping and my dads brilliant decision was to leave us while he went (maybe less old timey and just bad parents). Add to that there is numerous photo and video of me as a baby to newly 2yo being given pepsi

Readers' Guide to Periodical Literature! Libraries w/ large reserves of of physical, bound, old magazines-like that weapons room in The Matrix. You'd find a 30 year old article in situ (w/ ads from that time period) & I spent hundreds of hours w/ microfiche of local newspaper tracing local history

Probably something that even was pointed out back then: "Oh you want to change the channel but lost the remote? Then get up, walk over to the tv, and press a button!" BECAUSE virtually all tvs nowadays NEED a remote to even function! Hell, Pleasantville (1999) made that observation back then too.

"You want to turn the volume down or change the channel? Get up and walk over. What's a remote?" My grandfather soldered a connection so that he could run a wire to a remote which he kept by his chair. One button to mute. No other functions.

We had a telly that used an ultrasonic remote. We very quickly learned that you could change channels by clapping. Much hilarity ensued.

People dropping in being a wonderful surprise and they’d be welcome to stay for dinner. Now someone knocks at the door and it’s an invasion. Maybe cell phones changed this or maybe people in general changed, but I miss having friends randomly appear at our door.

If you wanted to play with the neighbor kid, you went, alone, to their house, rang the doorbell, and asked their mom if little Billy or whoever could come outside to play. No setting up playdates. No supervision. You just did whatever the hell you wanted as long as you were back by dinner.

Had a conversation with my wife about it during our walk last night (around 9pm) - playing outside (at night). We walked for a mile in our neighborhood and saw only one other person. Our ‘hood is much larger than mine growing up, but mine would have kids out easily until 10

No, they didn't use real bullets in movies except very rarely—they used blanks 👇, same as they used for stage guns. Hollywood popularized squibs (small explosives on the actor w/packs of stage blood, wired to explode when a switch was flipped) in the 1970s, though they were first used in 1943.

All the phone numbers I needed in life I had memorized. Not sure what happened to that part of my brain. Perhaps it’s now used to memorize all of my dumb passwords that I usually have to reset through my email because I can’t remember them. My poor brain.

I could name so many things ('87 - present), but I remember when my oldest kid was about 3 (2012) and she couldn't understand that a music cd wasn't a DVD. I was like, oh, is this what it was like for my parents? Now my youngest (6) doesn't even know what a DVD is.

Being mercilessly hot-boxed by my two-pack-a-day Tareyton smoking parents every time we went somewhere in the car. Also, the seatbelts spent most of their time in a dark crevice behind the rear seats, covered in melted Milk Duds.

Just driving anymore without any sense of real time traffic conditions. Like there was some stuff would reported on the radio, but mostly, you just didn't know.

I just remembered the "consultations of the elders" that would happen before lengthy drives... maps would be opened, tales of old adventures would be shared 🤣🤣🤣 "Well, if you can make it through Middletown by 4:00, you're in good shape, but if not, you'd better detour through Edgewood."

I remember thinking TripTiks were so cool, like a personalized Thomas Guide. But you always needed a map as a backup just to be safe.

that one family vacation driving 1300 miles to Florida circa 1980 was, indeed, quite the paper-driven adventure. on the return North, it included a stop at the Edgar Allan Poe house in Richmond, VA, picked directly from the Rand-McNally Atlas.

But you can't find out any of the interesting stops along the way! You have no idea what is flying by. I enjoy a point of interest or the name of a town coming up from time to time. Google has helpful tools but it flattens everything.

I recently found an episode of General Hospital that I missed in June 1982 when I was in high school. I was so upset that I cried at the time and I never forgot how bitter I felt. I felt like a tiny piece of me healed when I found it online this year. (It's an upload of a bad VHS copy, too, lol )

Just came back from two weeks vacation in northern France. Drove 3,000+ km and sadly didn’t have to clean the windows once.

Same. We drove across the us to Yellowstone last summer and maybe cleaned windshield one time. I esp miss all the fireflies lighting up the backyard. I see one now and feel I need to pray to it.

Just back from a drive from east coast to midwest and back. Was grateful for every little sucker splattered on my windshield, but not nearly enough of them nor any really large and gooey. And after a rainstorm coming into town, I didn't feel much compelled to keep cleaning, there were so few.

This little buggy reply of mine has gotten more attention than almost any of my other bluesky posts. It could have to do with the algorithm/timing or something. But it's heartening to know that people are noticing.

40 YEARS later…I’m a teacher getting on the bus to go on field trip. Older, balding bus driver points at me, says my name and the street I lived on as a kid. I’m shocked he knows. Then he says, “I’m Arnie, your milkman!”

Our milkman left it in the insulated box on the back porch. He also delivered pastries and bread! We kids would order cakes without permission and boy did we get in trouble!😂😂

There used to be chunky metal telephones in big metal boxes with windows everywhere and you had to put small pieces of metal into a slot on them to make them work. No, it didn’t have apps.

Still have em in Australia. Not nearly as common as they once were, and now free to use (the telco responsible for them decided it was cheaper to make them free than collect the money). The Telco uses them as advertising billboards and wi-fi hotspots.

Teen: frantically flipping thru a huge heavy CD book, picking a new one, swapping it out and putting the old one back, sitting in the drivers seat at a red light, all before it turns green and you need to shift into 1st and move yo ass Holy hell I miss driving a manual (exception: stalled traffic)

Alternatively, picking your shotgun co-captain/wing-woman was a delicate but important decision Can she juggle giving you directions, changing the music, lighting your cigarette, fixing your lipstick and hollering at friends and/or cute boys out the window? No slacking allowed in the front seat!

Got my son a manual Jeep Wrangler by special order in 2020. Then taught him how to drive it - amazing how muscle memory lasts for decades. So much fun to drive.

A rite of passage in our family was an intersection where you inevitably were stopped at a red light facing uphill with someone behind you inches away…in our little Plymouth Horizon.

It's cute! How many times did you burn rubber trying to get moving w/o bumping the car behind you? Just me? My father taught me to drive manual (NOT fun). He made me practice stop/starting on hills (reeeally not fun). I vowed to avoid them as much as possible from then on. It was a struggle lol

Because if you don’t, you would never know who had called and there was no way to leave a message. But at least you weren’t charged for incomplete calls, and you could exploit that by calling and hanging up after a prearranged series of rings. Because long distance was expensive.

I'm not old enough to remember all restaurants being like that, but growing up the pizza shop at the mall charged 25 cents for refills and I thought that was strange. Still did it anyway because they had the best pizza lol

Burger King was the first company that I knew of to do this. My BFF had worked there a long time, so I asked about it, and he told me the margins were so absurd on soda that they could easily afford it, and most people wouldn't actually drink much more (bc they're not there long).

MP3 player that literally doesn’t do anything else but hold music downloaded from your computer and maybe tell time. Also a WiFi card, because laptops didn’t have wireless receivers by default. I feel like there a ton of shit that only existed in the brief early stages of portable tech.

Having to stand up to change 4 channels using a knob. Holding the antenna in position so Gilligan’s Island would be static free. Playing outside from dawn to dusk, coming in only to eat. Trying so hard to rewind that mix tape your special someone gave you after the cassette recorder ate it.

Back when The Beatles went to go meet Elvis, he had a remote control and they said it kind of blew their minds that he had this device that could change channels from across the room.

We had a hand-me-down giant console tv from my grandpa with a remote like that. When I still had young vocal chords, I found the tone to scream and change the channel 😆

In order to get M*A*S*H to come in clearly, we put our cat on top of our 13-inch black-and-white TV. She learned quickly that she should stay there because it would shortly become deliciously warm. She would melt across the top and stay there until about 20 minutes after we stopped watching.

My neighbor sent us (six and seven year old kids) eight blocks away to the corner store to buy a pound of hamburger and a carton of cigarettes. Once a week with no problems. The store staff new our parents and yes, they sold us cigarettes.

Captured forever in Flute Loop by the Beastie Boys: A little wine with my dinner so I'm the grape ape I feel like a winner when I make a mix tape Cause I gets ill when I'm on the pause button I get my fill and now you can't say nothin'

I don’t think my kids have even seen a cassette tape or VHS tape in their lives. My 9yo only held a DVD for the first time recently. I immediately panicked because they started holding it by the shiny side rather than the edges lol

My friend didn’t have a radio cassette combo so she literally held a cassette recorder up to the speaker. One mix tape she made you could hear her mom call her name, first and middle, at the end of every song 😆 Her mom passed away several years ago and I bet she wishes she still had that tape.

My oldest was born in 2008 and has always had access to a DVR. He once wanted to watch Sesame Street at his grandmother's house and when we said "that's not on right now" he had absolutely no idea what we were talking about. The whole paradigm of a channel or schedule was unknown.

The sweet shop at the end of our road used to sell them loose,especially for the days before payday. Mum would send us to buy 3 cigs. I couldn't have been older than 10 but Mrs Walters knew her market 😂

We had to pre-arrange any rendezvous with specific landmarks or addresses. We had to understand a route on a map before driving somewhere. We kept that map in the glove box. We kept coins on hand to make phone calls for any challenge getting to a destination, or with a rendezvous.

I did sometimes see the ads for encyclopedia sets on the TV in the 2000s and wish I had one. Mind you, I have terrible eyesight and likely did not have much room to put them. Also shout out to the school library which had Encarta. I was 5 in 1999.

I remember licking stamps before putting them on envelopes Long ago you could write “letters” with a “pen” on “paper” to family and friends. Then “address” the envelope and put the letter in your mailbox with the flag up, to let the postman know he needed to pick up

Okay - I had one. We were NOT rich, but my dad was driven crazy by the sound of the house phone constantly ringing, so he got individual numbers for the kids just to have peace and quiet in the rest of the house. It was more of a "kids should be seen and not heard" situation, rather than a luxury

Same. Class of '88 My dad got us our own phone numbers and phone lines in our bedrooms in junior high / high school - so early 80s I remember I had a transparent phone that you could see all the colored wires inside My sister had a Mickey Mouse phone in her room

I absolutely would have lost money at the arcade. The claw machine, the racing games... can't shoot a basket or a computer/tv screen to save my life. Do you need the tennis ball to be halfway across town when playing fetch? cause I can do that!

The anticipation of freshly developed photos, too! Take photos not knowing if eyes were closed or out of focus, drop film off at the Photomat, wait a week to be developed, go back to the Photomat to get the envelope with photos & negatives—the excitement/disappointment of finally seeing the pics!

Local news came on tv for half an hour at 6 o’clock. National news at 6:30. And that was it. They didn’t try to make you scared or angry to keep your attention because they had it for half an hour and no more no matter what. So they just reported a few things and said see you tomorrow.

I recently took my 16 and 11 yo kids to a performance of “Come From Away”. The reporter is excited at one point about being contacted by Tom Brokaw. 16yo : who was Tom Brokaw? Me : longtime host of NBC Nightly News 16yo : oh….what was NBC Nightly News? 🤦‍♂️

They didn’t have to make stuff up or speculate with no facts to fill 24 hours of rolling news. It was just what happened and changed between programs. If something important happened, there’d be a special bulletin. Now it’s like an improvised, never-ending soap opera.

I don’t think they’d do it if there wasn’t money to be made. But the “eye witness” alarmist news started to take hold in the 80’s, and local broadcasts lost something. Now, 30% of the broadcast is stuff not happening in state. And the remaining stuff, it seems like it’s a small town 70 miles away

I can remember this from being a kid, but I can also remember them trying to scare you - but mostly into watching. I can remember promos during commercial breaks like "This common household item could kill your children. Find out what it is tonight on 6:30 news on Channel 30!"

Ha, yeah, definitely that. But I think the world changed when they had motivation to keep you in a constant state of alarm. When they had you for half an hour and had to get off the air for Wheel of Fortune, they didn’t make more money keeping you another minute and then another all day and night.

Planning directions BEFORE you go somewhere. And by planning I mean charting and considering multiple routes using paper maps and writing down the turn by turn directions on a legal pad, often with multiple consultations (wanted or not) from parents, uncles, etc.

Detroiters in my (Boomer) generation would say Ford's and Chrysler's ("Jim started working at Ford's") but I never heard "GM's." My theory is the Personal Founder, which would work for Deere's or Firestone's. No actual evidence. :-)

Going with my dad to get the AAA highway maps, and especially the TripTiks, for our annual drive from Detroit to Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia. I don't believe my parents *knew* they could make motel reservations, and they might not have made them anyway.

When Disney World opened, Dad was 58 years old. And Disneyland was exactly the opposite way from Cape Breton. Besides, as my mom said with exasperated puzzlement when I as an adult said I was going from my home town to Chéticamp (45 minutes away), “We don’t know anyone there.”

Continuing the car-related riff: At least four gas stations within walking distance of my house, when I was in grade school, offered free highway maps -- not just for Michigan, the state I was in, but for many other states.

I think those long drives from Detroit to Cape Breton Island developed my love of maps, if only out of necessity. My mother didn't drive but didn't like being the navigator. No electronic device, no radio (Dad didn't listen while driving); Walkman and GameBoy were far in the future...

So I read every bit of copy on every page of every TripTik, plus the stuff in the AAA guidebook (hotels, restaurants, points of interest), though we ate most of our meals in our cabin (preferred over motels) or at roadside picnic tables.

Yeah, if you had the old ones to swap. I don't think you could swap a regualr bulb (like a 60w) for a three-way, but otherwise you were fine. I took about two dozen Detroit Edison bulbs with me when I moved to Virginia.

That's the crazy thing! I don't recall there really ever being a situation where the place they wanted to stay was full up. Meanwhile, in a post Expedia world, good luck planning a last minute weekend trip a few towns over.

Parents had no idea where we were during the Summer. After breakfast we’d head out on our bikes with orders to be home by dinner (a family in the neighborhood had a school bell the dad would ring at 6:00). You could go out after dinner as long as you were home by the time the street lights came on.

Waiting to be picked up by your parent after marching band practice and having to bum change and call a land line from a pay phone if they miscommunicated about which one was giving you a ride.

When I was in primary school it was "always carry a 10p", then 20p, 30p, I think it's 50p now. I remember Cubs (baby Scouts) telling everyone to put a couple of 10ps on some sticky tape and put it in the glove box in case you broke down.

My dad made me carry my phone call money in my shoe, so I would remember to not spend it until I was ready for a ride home. He was happy when I was able to just ride the bus (30 minutes) by myself to get back and forth to the malls. (Aurora CO peeps...Aurora Mall and Buckingham to Havana/17th)

Getting your computer synched to the uni in the 00s took 48 hours of long codes & sighs of disgust from support staff. Dial up internet. Mildew on windows & curtains. Bakerlite phones with dials, an allottment to keep family grocery costs down.